I told my parents the night it happened. He was arrested. His family hired a good lawyer. It went to trial. They found him not guilty. Well this guy had a girlfriend who I will call S. S was pregnant. S stayed with him and they moved to Nebraska. I have seen him twice in the last almost ten years.
He and S had two more kids. She finally got away from him and is now dating one of my husband’s good friends, C. I like C and I think he is a good guy. The first time I saw them together I was very shocked. I asked him what the hell he was doing with her. C and I talked and he told me that S had been abused in a number of ways by him and she had finally gotten away from him. And that she has no hard feelings towards me.
S & C showed up at our house warming partying. I hate seeing her. She doesn’t bring back anything but bad memories. I don’t feel sorry for her. I realize that may be a little cruel but she could have left him when he was accused of raping someone.
And now that she moved back here guess who came back too. The last time I saw him was right before my hubs came home. I freaked out.
C is going to Afghanistan in less than a month. Will she stick with him through that? I highly doubt it.
It’s hard to just put it all in the past and be a better person and try to be
I doubt anyone could really understand what all this means to me, unless you have been through it also but any advise would be appreciated.